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		<title>By: Katy W</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-27190</link>
		<dc:creator>Katy W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Mar 2010 02:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe the concern about eating is if Surgery is required not only C-section, but life saving procedures a full stomach can lead to vomitting and choking if you are unconcious.  It is the same reason you have to be fasting when you go in for any surgical procedure.  I was always starving 1-2 hours after delivery but not during labor at all.  Oh and if you do eat, no red food.  You don&#039;t want anyone thinking you vomited blood</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe the concern about eating is if Surgery is required not only C-section, but life saving procedures a full stomach can lead to vomitting and choking if you are unconcious.  It is the same reason you have to be fasting when you go in for any surgical procedure.  I was always starving 1-2 hours after delivery but not during labor at all.  Oh and if you do eat, no red food.  You don&#8217;t want anyone thinking you vomited blood</p>
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		<title>By: Lynsey Stone</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26743</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynsey Stone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 03:17:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I made a cake with my girls when I was in labor with Eden and now it will be her special birthday cake every year! &lt;3 &lt;3</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I made a cake with my girls when I was in labor with Eden and now it will be her special birthday cake every year! &lt;3 &lt;3</p>
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		<title>By: Jenna</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26588</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 03:12:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I didn&#039;t click over to see where this was embedded. Oops! I won&#039;t be heating up towels or drawing the bath, Sarah takes care of all of that. She just tells me what she needs and how to lay it out and I have it ready for her when she comes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t click over to see where this was embedded. Oops! I won&#8217;t be heating up towels or drawing the bath, Sarah takes care of all of that. She just tells me what she needs and how to lay it out and I have it ready for her when she comes.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26587</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 03:09:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh you were just saying you don&#039;t know why you need garlic or the crock pot</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh you were just saying you don&#8217;t know why you need garlic or the crock pot</p>
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		<title>By: Jenna</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26586</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:31:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not sure I understand what you mean?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not sure I understand what you mean?</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26575</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:12:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So are these just things your midwife tells you to do?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So are these just things your midwife tells you to do?</p>
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		<title>By: kara</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26571</link>
		<dc:creator>kara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:55:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So glad to hear it, Jenna.  :)  Let me know if you have any questions about it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So glad to hear it, Jenna.  <img src='http://thatwifeblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Let me know if you have any questions about it!</p>
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		<title>By: Jenna</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26556</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If I were hospital birthing I would definitely choose the place based on their policies. I won&#039;t have that luxury though if I have to transfer in the middle of labor (which is, of course, a risk I&#039;m willing to take). 

And now I need to bump &quot;contact pediatrician&quot; up on my to-do list. So much to prepare!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I were hospital birthing I would definitely choose the place based on their policies. I won&#8217;t have that luxury though if I have to transfer in the middle of labor (which is, of course, a risk I&#8217;m willing to take). </p>
<p>And now I need to bump &#8220;contact pediatrician&#8221; up on my to-do list. So much to prepare!</p>
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		<title>By: Jenna</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26554</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Today I showed TH a picture of a meconium filled diaper. Maybe I should call him over and point out pictures of the placenta as well!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I showed TH a picture of a meconium filled diaper. Maybe I should call him over and point out pictures of the placenta as well!</p>
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		<title>By: Jenna</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26553</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:06:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of the biggest reasons I wanted to post my birth plans was so that people like you would help me understand things that Google sometimes doesn&#039;t do a very good job of explaining. :) I&#039;ll be fighting to have the PKU test done in our room with baby right next to me (or in my arms?) but after comments like yours I won&#039;t be denying. Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the biggest reasons I wanted to post my birth plans was so that people like you would help me understand things that Google sometimes doesn&#8217;t do a very good job of explaining. <img src='http://thatwifeblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I&#8217;ll be fighting to have the PKU test done in our room with baby right next to me (or in my arms?) but after comments like yours I won&#8217;t be denying. Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Jenna</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26552</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:04:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of the things I look forward to most in regards to my unmedicated birth is feeling the desire to push. All women who birth drug free talk about how powerful the urge is, and I think listening to your body tell you what to do is a wonderful thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the things I look forward to most in regards to my unmedicated birth is feeling the desire to push. All women who birth drug free talk about how powerful the urge is, and I think listening to your body tell you what to do is a wonderful thing.</p>
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		<title>By: Jenna</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26550</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh man, can you believe I took anatomy in college TWICE!?? Actually now I&#039;m probably helping people understand why I took it twice. 

I knew that the glans was the head and that what I meant to refer to was the foreskin. I really did! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh man, can you believe I took anatomy in college TWICE!?? Actually now I&#8217;m probably helping people understand why I took it twice. </p>
<p>I knew that the glans was the head and that what I meant to refer to was the foreskin. I really did! <img src='http://thatwifeblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jenna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:28:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heating up water/towels? Or possibly creating the herbal bath that I&#039;ll be immersing in after baby is born? I have no idea about that one!</description>
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		<title>By: Sarag</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26507</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarag</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 16:37:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What&#039;s the crock pot for?</description>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:29:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love that you posted these! I&#039;m not planning on having kids for a while, but I really enjoy reading about your birthing plans. I had never thought twice about hospital births before reading your blog, but I think that once we start talking about having kids, I will be doing some research on home birthing! Thanks for being so open in sharing your plans!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love that you posted these! I&#8217;m not planning on having kids for a while, but I really enjoy reading about your birthing plans. I had never thought twice about hospital births before reading your blog, but I think that once we start talking about having kids, I will be doing some research on home birthing! Thanks for being so open in sharing your plans!</p>
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		<title>By: sarsk624</title>
		<link>http://thatwifeblog.com/2010/03/the-birth-plans/comment-page-2/#comment-26331</link>
		<dc:creator>sarsk624</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:49:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My brother isn&#039;t and I have never really discussed with my parents why they didn&#039;t. But my husband is. I don&#039;t honestly think my brother or a former BF, who also was not, ever were teased. But that BF did feel a need to tell me ahead of time he was not. One interesting thing I just found, when googling for reasons to that are not religious, it is thought to reduce the rates of HPV and thus cervical and penile cancer. I&#039;m sure an argument can be made that if you&#039;re having responsible, safe sex you wouldn&#039;t get HPV. But look at the rates. Condoms don&#039;t prevent it. Here is the article from The Journal of Infection Disease http://www.idsociety.org/Content.aspx?id=12952

That&#039;s not to criticize Jenna in anyway. I&#039;m impressed by how thorough her birth plans are and commend her for making them available. 

It is something that I just looked up after reading the comments because I don&#039;t know what my personal feelings on circumcision would be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My brother isn&#8217;t and I have never really discussed with my parents why they didn&#8217;t. But my husband is. I don&#8217;t honestly think my brother or a former BF, who also was not, ever were teased. But that BF did feel a need to tell me ahead of time he was not. One interesting thing I just found, when googling for reasons to that are not religious, it is thought to reduce the rates of HPV and thus cervical and penile cancer. I&#8217;m sure an argument can be made that if you&#8217;re having responsible, safe sex you wouldn&#8217;t get HPV. But look at the rates. Condoms don&#8217;t prevent it. Here is the article from The Journal of Infection Disease <a href="http://www.idsociety.org/Content.aspx?id=12952" rel="nofollow">http://www.idsociety.org/Content.aspx?id=12952</a></p>
<p>That&#8217;s not to criticize Jenna in anyway. I&#8217;m impressed by how thorough her birth plans are and commend her for making them available. </p>
<p>It is something that I just looked up after reading the comments because I don&#8217;t know what my personal feelings on circumcision would be.</p>
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		<title>By: schmei</title>
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		<dc:creator>schmei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:21:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just wanted to throw in that I really like the formatting of these plans: straightforward, numbered lists. Friends of mine had a birth plan that was a NOVEL. Seriously - pages of wordy prose, justifying each choice. It was preachy and hard to follow. 

In the end, their birth went nothing at all like their plan, and it sounded like the nurses at the hospital kind of despised them for showing up with this multi-page list of demands and an &quot;Anything the doctor says is wrong&quot; attitude. 

I feel like anyone could follow this list, especially the home birth, step-by-step prep parts - and even if the less-than ideal situation comes to pass, you&#039;ve clearly though that through. Very nicely done.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just wanted to throw in that I really like the formatting of these plans: straightforward, numbered lists. Friends of mine had a birth plan that was a NOVEL. Seriously &#8211; pages of wordy prose, justifying each choice. It was preachy and hard to follow. </p>
<p>In the end, their birth went nothing at all like their plan, and it sounded like the nurses at the hospital kind of despised them for showing up with this multi-page list of demands and an &#8220;Anything the doctor says is wrong&#8221; attitude. </p>
<p>I feel like anyone could follow this list, especially the home birth, step-by-step prep parts &#8211; and even if the less-than ideal situation comes to pass, you&#8217;ve clearly though that through. Very nicely done.</p>
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		<title>By: MrsW</title>
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		<dc:creator>MrsW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 04:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The ACOG now recommends clear liquids during labor, so pull that on them if someone tries to confront you. Of course, you may find that eating is the last thing on your mind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The ACOG now recommends clear liquids during labor, so pull that on them if someone tries to confront you. Of course, you may find that eating is the last thing on your mind.</p>
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		<title>By: Aubree</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aubree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 00:52:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve never had a baby so I have no advice for you, but thank you for letting us read these! I bet you&#039;re so excited :) It feels like just yesterday you were announcing your pregnancy on this blog! Good luck with your plan, I&#039;m sure everything will work out great.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve never had a baby so I have no advice for you, but thank you for letting us read these! I bet you&#8217;re so excited <img src='http://thatwifeblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  It feels like just yesterday you were announcing your pregnancy on this blog! Good luck with your plan, I&#8217;m sure everything will work out great.</p>
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		<title>By: Aubree</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aubree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 00:50:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The glans is actually the head of the penis--I think that most men would argue that&#039;s a horrific idea :P</description>
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