18 Sep

I Only Have Moves For You, Dear

Posted by Jenna, Under Married Life

 

When I wrote my post about hair and youth I tried to work through the responses before I posted, in order to anticipate anything I might want to avoid. There were two that I missed that I wanted to circle back to in a second pass.

First, the discussion of my unwanted desire to be considered attractive, specifically by men, should not be read as a broadcast that I’m actively looking for something, nor that I want to be objectified by any human person. Have you seen the Jessica Williams piece about how the sidewalk is not a catwalk? I can give a big amen to that. Down with the cat-calling and the misogyny! I’m not advocating for men to toss sleazy “compliments” in my direction, or in the direction of any woman. But I do think a lot of women, myself included, grow up viewing their looks as a commodity to be leveraged in the marketplace of life. Growing older and having children complicates all of this and leaves me feeling confused about where my worth is as I attempt to redefine some of my longest-held beliefs.

Second, a few people expressed shock that I, a married woman, would dare to talk publicly about my individual sexuality. I have a husband after all. Read more →

16 Sep

One Day Per Week

Posted by Jenna, Under Adventures, family, Parenting

We went through a period where That Husband was working every single day of the week and I was emotionally depleted by the lack of family-togetherness time. It was really hard for me to enjoy my time with my kids when I was constantly jumping back and forth between meeting the needs of one or the other. I craved an easy afternoon where we would laugh and play and be in love with each other, all of us together in the same place . TH could see that the everyday working arrangement wasn’t a good long term strategy for our marriage, and so he promised me Saturdays as a family day. So far he’s been able to stick with it and we are all so much happier! The kids get to interact with him and show him their newest skills, and I get to go to Happy Hollow and have someone to chat and sit with as the kids do their kid things.

Speaking of Happy Hollow, once we figured out we were going to spend time together, we had to agree on what to do. Not an easy task when one partner likes to explore and try new things and the other likes routine and predictability. I want to sit down with the Red Tricycle emails and plan a different sort of outing every weekend, focusing on all of the food festivals that have a little something for the kids and a little something for me too. TH has won out for now, and most of our Saturday mornings of late have been spent at Happy Hollow, a little park and zoo not too far from our house. We can wear the kids out, feed them lunch, keep them awake in the car, and have some quiet time to ourselves in the afternoon. T1 loves it there, so much so that every time his teacher asks him what he has been up to he describes trips to Happy Hollow. Even on the weekends when we don’t go :).

I’m not a huge fan of zoos, but I do have a soft spot for the meerkat exhibit. Those little guys are really committed to being on the lookout at all times.  Read more →

14 Sep

A Maxim of Mine

Posted by Jenna, Under Uncategorized

what other people say about you

I recite this to myself on a regular basis. (Not posting in reaction to any particular instance of late.) I wanted it online so I could post it to my Pinterest quote board. :) I like this version a little better than the one with Susie and Sally.

12 Sep

One Roll for the New School Year

Posted by Jenna, Under School

To celebrate the new school year I decided I would treat myself to a mini-session in the front yard with my kids, using a full roll of medium format film in one sitting. This is an indulgence because the cost for the film+development+scanning for the 15 frames I shot was $23.20. I only kept 8 of the images from the roll, which means each photo cost me $2.90, not including any time spent editing. It’s an expensive hobby to pick up (digital images would be free!), but when I scroll through these images I think it’s worth it.

This is an evening in our front yard, eating watermelon with the cookie dough scoop my great-grandma gave me on our wedding day, dancing to a Spotify playlist, shouting with excitement each time a neighbor walked by with a dog.

Mamiya 645, Porta 400 (b&w images converted in LR)


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09 Sep

Jenna Cole Photography Fall Sessions

Posted by Jenna, Under Photography

This past summer has definitely been an investment period for Jenna Cole. I’ve done a lot of work for free, trying to build up a portfolio of images that showcase my viewpoint and what I can give back to the clients who hire me. If you would like to be one of them, please get in touch at the email address below or using the contact form on my Facebook page so we can set something up!

If you don’t live in San Francisco, but you know someone who does, can you refer them to this post? I am still working on building up my client base, so these prices are really excellent for the market in this area. I so appreciate all of the ways That Wife readers have helped Jenna Cole over the years.

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Film Portfolio: http://jennacole.com/fresh/2014/09/film-portfolio/
Digital Portfolio: http://jennacole.com/fresh/2014/09/digital-portfolio/

Click over to my Jenna Cole Photography Facebook page to find out how you can earn a $25 print credit when you book. (And I would really appreciate it if you would like that page if you haven’t already!)

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