Just wanted to clarify that this project is NOT about poking fun at specific photographers. We’re all beginners at some point! Unfortunately I have worked with photography clients who have little to no photos of their wedding day, or what they do have is very low quality, because they chose to prioritize their budget in a way that photography was not allotted a high enough amount to hire someone with the equipment and expertise necessary to handle the challenges that wedding days represent. Submissions can most certainly be anonymous (send them to jenna {at} jennacole {dot} com if you would like to keep your information private) and we won’t be including watermarked photos or identifying who took the photo in any way.

My sister is collecting stories from people who hired “Uncle Bob”* for their wedding photography, a project inspired by Annie of Marry You Me:

“Someones uncle” as your sister puts it totally took the pictures at my MIL’s cultural hall reception for us. Some were so blue or yellow we look like aliens, several with no flash, and my personal favorite about him was when he took posed pictures of the families (with me sitting down in a chair, awkward!) for 45 minutes and then goes, “Oh just a sec folks – there’s no film in the camera. Be right back.” I thought he was joking, but it was all too real.”

Annie’s comment was prompted by this link I tweeted a few days ago, a Craigslist posting made by a professional photographer who I assume was frustrated by the number of people around her turning to inexperienced people ill-equipped to handle the challenges wedding day photography presents. I know there are many painful stories out there to be told (even stories of professional photographers who were paid lots of money and failed to provide what was promised!), but Shay is looking for those who can look back on their experience with a bit or mirth and talk about what they would have done differently. If you were a guest at wedding with an Uncle Bob photographer and have a story to tell, we would love to hear those as well!

I didn’t hire a photographer for my hometown wedding reception, something I regret. We worked hard to make the event come together, paid for a caterer and tent, and I only have a handful of photos from the event, many which look like this because we handed an expensive camera over to a family friend:

Expensive cameras do not equal good pictures my friends.

Email Shaylene at info@shaylenecarter.com to share your stories (picture proof would be much, much, much appreciated!)

*From Urban Dictionary: A term created by wedding photographers to describe a guest at a wedding with a SLR camera with big lenses and a flash gun. Uncle Bob has little understanding of his own equipment which is often better than the official photographer and likes to get in the way of the wedding photographer spoiling and directing shots.

P.S.-Weddingbee readers, if one of you feels like posting a link to this post on the WB boards to spread the word a bit more I would really appreciate it!

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